Dear “Love Being Catholic” Friends

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Dear “Love Being Catholic” friends,

This blog was set up to spread the joy and beauty of the Catholic faith. It is for Catholics, fallen away Catholics, or anyone who might be interested in learning more about our faith, and perhaps understand a little bit better what we believe and why we believe it, using faith and reason. Our Catholic faith is attacked on a daily basis by the media, atheists, other religions, organizations, other Christians, and by Catholics who have left the faith, so it is important now more than ever to know your faith, defend, share and pass it on to your children and grandchildren. When you leave this earth, one of the greatest things you can leave for your children and grandchildren is your Catholic faith.

All of us know of Catholics who have left the Church for various reasons. Some left, and came back. Others were encouraged to leave and join other churches or religions, or they left religion all together. They left because they did not feel that they had a “personal relationship” with Jesus in the Catholic Church. They left because they were hurt about a particular teaching. They left because they were fed up with the behavior of other Catholics, priests and bishops. They left because they were not taught the true beauty and joy of our faith, even though they may have attended Catholic schools their whole life. They left because they thought the homilies were boring, or the music was not entertaining enough. They left because they did not feel welcome in the Catholic Church. They left sometimes for no reason at all – just that God and church were not a priority in their lives anymore. Regardless of the reason, many Catholics have left the Church and we want them to come back home.

When they leave, and go elsewhere, they are often taught that the Catholic religion is wrong, that we worship Mary, that the Pope is the anti-Christ, that we are not Biblical, that we do not need to baptize our babies, and that we are all brainwashed and can’t think for ourselves. They are told that Catholics never read the Bible, that we don’t have a personal relationship with Christ, that purgatory is not biblical and made up, that abortion is okay, that marriage should be re-defined, or not defended, that you should never ask Mary or the saints to pray for you, and that the Eucharist is just a symbol, and not the body, blood, soul and divinity of Christ.

And why does it matter if they leave the Catholic Church, as long as they are following Jesus? It’s all the same right? Why should we care? Why does it matter?

It matters because as Catholics we think it is important to belong to the Church that Christ founded 2000 years ago. It matters because when you leave the Catholic Church, you leave the Eucharist – and all the sacraments that Christ Himself instituted. It matters because as Catholics we believe the Church contains the fullness of the truth, because it was founded by Christ Himself. This does not mean that we think other religions and Christian denominations do not contain any truth, for they do. But the Catholic Church, since it was founded by Jesus, contains the fullness of truth, so we think it is very important to belong to the Catholic Church and share our faith with others.

Does this mean that Catholics are better than other Christians, or holier than non-Catholics? Absolutely not. Some of the holiest people I know are Catholic, but some of the most unholiest people I know are Catholic. However, do I believe the Catholic Church is the one true Church founded by Christ Himself and contains the fullness of the Truth? Absolutely Yes.

Think about it. If you did not think your church contained the “Fullness of Truth”, why are you there? If it contained “most” of the truth, is that good enough for you? If my child had a teacher at school that taught “half truths” about a subject, yet they were an exciting teacher, would I want my child taking that class? Wherever you are on your journey, seek, study and search for the Truth. As much as the world would like to tell you God is dead, and you don’t need religion, don’t believe it. Jesus is Truth and God is not dead.

Truth is not up to a majority vote, where you can just pick and choose what is truth based on how you want to live your life at the time. Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life. Jesus does not change. Jesus is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. Truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it, and cannot mean two opposite things. It either is the truth or it isn’t. (For example – the Eucharist either is the body, blood, soul and divinity of Christ, or it isn’t.)

There are many, many things all Christians have in common that we should celebrate – mainly our belief in Jesus Christ. Many say as long as we agree on the essentials it’s all good. But who decides what is “essential”? To a Catholic, the Eucharist is essential, to a non-Catholic, it is merely a symbol. To a Catholic baptizing our children and our love and devotion to our Blessed Mother are “essential.” To a non-Catholic they are not. To a Catholic, abortion is not okay, to many others, it isn’t important to defend these little lives who are brutally murdered in their mother’s womb. These “essentials” matter to a Catholic.

The Catholic Church is both human and divine. Because it is divine, it will last forever. Because it is human, it will have scandals, and sinful people in it, just like what you will find in all Protestant denominations,religions, atheist groups, governments, and families. Scandals do not prove that the Catholic Church is false. They only prove what is obvious: that the Church contains sinners as well as saints. Yes there have been terrible things that have happened in our Church – the sexual abuse scandal was horrible. I personally was disgusted with the behavior of some priests and bishops. Unfortunately this is not just a “Catholic” problem – the abuse of children happens throughout every religion, protestant denomination, organization (yes even atheist abuse children), school and family. According to what you hear and read in the media, it is just a “Catholic” problem. Not true. There is Evil everywhere. Evil does not discriminate and has no boundaries. Despite humans messing things up at times, the Catholic Church was founded by Christ, and will forever be guided by the Holy Spirit until the end of time. As St. Teresa of Avila says, “The Truth suffers, but never dies.”

There are over a billion Catholics in the world, many of them holy and devout people, doing their best to imitate and lead souls to Christ. It’s not too often that we hear the good that the Church does to help so many. Among all the Christian churches, only the Catholic Church has existed since the time of Jesus. Every other Christian church is an offshoot of the Catholic Church. The Eastern Orthodox churches broke away from unity with the pope in 1054. The Protestant churches were established during the Reformation, which began in 1517. Most of today’s Protestant churches are actually offshoots of the original Protestant offshoots.

Only the Catholic Church existed in the tenth century, in the fifth century, and in the first century, faithfully teaching the doctrines given by Christ to the apostles, omitting nothing. The line of popes can be traced back, in unbroken succession, to Peter himself. This is unequaled by any institution in history.

Even the oldest government is new compared to the papacy, and the churches to which door-to-door missionaries belong are young compared to the Catholic Church. Many of these churches began as recently as the nineteenth or twentieth centuries. None of them can claim to be the Church Jesus established.

The Catholic Church has existed for nearly 2,000 years, despite constant opposition from the world. This is testimony to the Church’s divine origin. It must be more than a merely human organization, especially considering that its human members—even some of its leaders—have been unwise, corrupt, or prone to heresy. Any merely human organization with such members would have collapsed early on. The fact that the Catholic Church is today the most vigorous church (and the largest, with about a billion members) is testimony not to the cleverness of the Church’s leaders, but to the protection of the Holy Spirit.

Church history does matter, because if you study it you will see that the early Church was totally Catholic. The early Church believed in the Real Presence of Christ in the Eucharist; Early Christians did pray for their dead; Christ appointed Peter the first pope as the leader of the early Church; Christ did give the apostles the power to forgive sins; Mary was loved and honored by the early Christians, Whole households (including babies) were baptized, etc. . . Think about it – if you are looking for a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, you can’t get more personal than when you receive His body, blood, soul, and divinity in the holy Eucharist, and are a part of the actual Church that Christ founded. It’s important to know this, know why we are Catholic, embrace the fullness of our faith and then be faithful, holy witnesses to others.

If you have never studied Church history, study it now and see what the early Church was really like, what Catholics believed, and what they practice. Many people have converted to the Catholic Church after studying Church history, particularly regarding the issue of authority. (Two great books to read on church history are: “Four Witnesses”, by Rod Bennett, and “The Father Knows Best” by Jimmy Akin.) The issue of authority is huge. Today anyone can pick up a Bible and interpret the same Bible passage a hundred different ways. Remember, Jesus is Truth and Truth does not contradict Himself. There is a reason why we have the Magisterium, an authority to protect Holy Scripture and guide us in interpreting God’s Word. These days just about anything can be justified with scripture, if interpreted incorrectly. Just because you can quote scripture, it doesn’t mean you are interpreting it correctly. Even the devil quoted scripture and used it for evil.

Saint John Paul II and Blessed Mother Teresa are two Catholics who truly lived their Catholic faith. Their holiness, love for Christ, and devotion to Our Lady set a wonderful example for all of us to follow. Remember – our goal is Heaven, bringing souls to Christ, and letting others know about the Church that Christ founded. As Christians we are all in this together, doing the best that we can to imitate Christ. As Catholic Christians, it is important to know what we believe and why we believe it, so that we can share the joy and beauty of our faith with others and help others on their journey to the Catholic Church. And please teach your children all about our beautiful faith, about Christ and His Church. Be sure to teach them apologetics as well – how to defend their faith using faith and reason. They will definitely come across many attacks and wrong information that others will tell them about the Catholic Church, so be sure to teach them as well.

So welcome to this “Love Being Catholic” site! Hopefully we will all learn a little bit more about our beautiful faith, and share the love of Christ and his Church with others. Please always remember to love, defend, share and live your Catholic faith humbly, joyfully and charitably. For those who have left, please come back. There is so much that many of us did not know about our faith growing up, and we hope with God’s grace this will touch some of you to at least think about returning to the Catholic faith. For those of you who are just entering the Church – welcome home!

Wherever you are on your journey, know that Jesus loves you. We love you where you are, and our hope and prayers are that you will be led gently and joyfully back to the Catholic Church. Being a part of the Church that Christ founded will bring you much joy, peace and closer to Christ than you could ever imagine.

In Christ,


May Crowning

I wanted to share this photo to show you how much the children at Pinecrest Academy, a Catholic school in Cumming, GA, love our Blessed Mother. They held their annual May crowning ceremonies this past week in their elementary, middle and high school, and each of the children sang Ave Maria and other songs as they came up and set beautiful flowers around our Blessed Mother.

Like I mentioned before, this Facebook page is dedicated to Our Lady, so I love sharing photos like this, that show how much we love and honor Mary.

Children, flowers and Our Blessed Mother – it doesn’t get any sweeter than this! Dear Blessed Mother, we love you. Please pray for our children, and keep all of them in your loving care.

May Crowning


Morning Prayer

In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ I will begin this day.

I thank you, Lord, for having preserved me during the night. I will do my best to make all I do today pleasing to You and in accordance with Your will. My dear mother Mary, watch over me this day. My Guardian Angel, take care of me. St. Joseph and all you saints of God, pray for me.

O Jesus, through the Immaculate Heart of Mary, I offer You my prayers, works, joys and sufferings of this day for all the intentions of Your Sacred Heart, in union with the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass throughout the world, in reparation for my sins, for the intentions of all my relatives and friends, and in particular for the intentions of the Holy Father.

I wish to gain all the indulgences attached to the prayers I shall say and the good works I shall perform this day. Amen.

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